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We sold-out our fabulous dinner event at Sea Grass on January 15th, and just added another night there for April!!!... Many thanks to Janine & Kim for a great menu & all of you who joined us & brought items for the Monmouth FoodBank. Watch our Events page for more upcoming chances to support OG businesses. We'll soon update you on our crushing Marriage Equality loss in Trenton with OGU's take on it, as well as State Senator Sean Kean's patronizing "speech" before his "no" vote - despite his own district's diverse LGBT makeup... stay tuned... please also take a look at some Essential Reading (re: recent Ocean Grove-related issues.) For now the link is added to the left "menu," as we work to "streamline" and update the website a bit... hang in there!


 

NEWS ITEM 12/29/08: NJ Division on Civil Rights Rules in Favor of Lesbian Couple

Today the NJ Division on Civil Rights has endorsed the validity of a complaint filed against the Camp Meeting Association by Harriet Bernstein and Luisa Paster, an Ocean Grove lesbian couple who were denied use of the boardwalk pavilion for their civil union ceremony in the spring of 2007.

Ocean Grove United appreciates that the DCR has viewed the issue in the same way that we do and has confirmed that the pavilion is not religious in nature but a public accommodation and therefore subject to the NJ Law Against Discrimination. We note that this decision should in no way be considered a precedent for requiring any religious group to endorse, perform, or participate in civil unions, only that a public accommodation must be open for equal use by all, regardless of sexual orientation. We now look forward to the Camp Meeting Association lifting its ban on the use of the pavilion and allowing both marriage and civil union ceremonies to take place there on an equal basis.

Ocean Grove United would like to thank the entire community of Ocean Grove, the Human Rights Campaign, Garden State Equality, and the American Civil Liberties Union for their strong support and encouragement during this campaign. The unexpected results of this painful incident have been a renewed sense of community and energy in Ocean Grove, evidenced by the flying of hundreds of equality flags, and the participation in OGU sponsored fund raising events, porch parties, and special events in support of local businesses. Ocean Grove United has also been happy to work with the Camp Meeting Association on events such as a memorial program for Dr. George Fey Stoll and the 4th of July parade, and with the Ocean Grove Chamber of Commerce on local events.

As stated here on our web page, Ocean Grove United is a group of Ocean Grove residents and business owners committed to guaranteeing the civil rights of all members of the community, and to promoting the participation of all toward the enhancement of Ocean Grove as a diverse and harmonious community.

 

NEW! OGU Video Clips on YouTube


from "Labor Day Camp Meeting Sit-In 2007"
For more footage on YouTube>Click Here!


NJ Division of Civil Rights Complainants Interviewed on NPR

On Monday June 19th, Ocean Grove residents Harriet Bernstein and Luisa Paster were interviewed by Barbara Bradley Hagerty on National Public Radio's morning program. To listen to the recorded program and a written synopsis of the interview, please Click Here.

Later that day, the Pavilion controversy was discussed again during NPR's 'Talk of the Nation' segment: Listen Here.

Click here: OGU Stays Involved!

CMA says "No" but Mother Nature says "Yes!"

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Who Needs A Pavilion Anyway?


OGU supporters
OGU supporters Rev. Julie Parker, Harriet Bernstein, Luisa Paster, Rev. Bill Crawford, Jan Moore, Emily Sonnessa and Rev. David Parker at the pavilion.

The Boardwalk Pavilion Controversy

The Ocean Grove boardwalk pavilion has been used as a public space for decades. Bands play there. Children skateboard through it. Tourists enjoy the shade. It's even been used for debates and Civil War re-enactments. Yet this widely-used open space is now closed to same-sex couples wishing to hold civil union ceremonies there.

The group making this determination is the Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association (OGCMA), a Methodist organization that owns all of the property in Ocean Grove. The organization maintains that its discretion to disallow civil unions within Methodist churches extends to the boardwalk pavilion in Ocean Grove. In other words, the OGCMA considers the public pavilion part of its church.

The OGCMA's decision is in direct defiance of recent New Jersey state legislation and a New Jersey Supreme Court ruling recognizing same-sex couples and granting legal status to civil unions. Further, given the multiple civic and religious uses of the pavilion, the space is considered a place of public accommodation under the New Jersey Law Against Discrimination. In accordance with the law, same-sex couples are entitled to use the pavilion for civil union ceremonies.

A group of concerned Ocean Grove citizens — both gay and straight — have formed Ocean Grove United, in light of these events, to ensure the civil rights of all members of the Ocean Grove community.

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"The Camp Meeting Association's policy of discrimination against gays and lesbians wishing to hold their civil unions in the Ocean Grove boardwalk pavilion is shameful. It is a violation of civil rights and an affront to all members of the community and to justice and equality. This policy does not reflect the Ocean Grove community that we know and love."

Mary Beth Jahn
Mayor
Neptune Township
(which Ocean Grove is a part of)



"The Camp Meeting Association receives federal services and funds. Therefore, they don't have any right to be exclusionary. I don't believe they have a leg to stand on legally with this case. They have to reverse this decision."

Frank Pallone, Jr.
U.S. Congressman
6th District of NJ




"Same-sex civil union ceremonies should be allowed in the Ocean Grove boardwalk pavilion. This is a civil rights issue and not about gays or lesbians. It's about the rights of individuals to be full members of all of their communities."

Randy Bishop
Committeeman & Former Mayor
Neptune Township (which Ocean Grove is a part of)




"Why are some kinds of prejudice acceptable? Would Ocean Grove forbid African-Americans or Asians or people with handicapping conditions from use of the pavilion? Of course not. To forbid gays and lesbians use of this space is not only illegal, it's ethically wrong."

Reverend Julie Parker
Ordained Minister
United Methodist Church



"Not only does this blatant and plainly unchristian policy of discrimination fly in the face of the biblical prophets' passion for social justice, but it is clearly contrary, it seems to me, to the open-hearted, inclusive spirit of John Wesley, the founder of Methodism."

Reverend David Parker
Retired Minister
United Methodist Church



"Discrimination and prejudice are never acceptable-but they are especially disturbing when they come covered by a veneer of religiosity. Since the Ocean Grove boardwalk pavilion serves all people and is in no sense 'a church,' same-sex civil unions should be permitted the same way that weddings have been allowed."

Reverend Robert Kriesat
Retired Lutheran Minister
Vice Chair of Garden State Equality




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